The infidelity of a partner causes hurt and pain and anyone can be the victim—even those who are rich, famous, and beautiful.
Such appears to be the case for Jennifer Lopez, who spoke with Glamour UK recently while promoting her film The Boy Next Door, which just opened this weekend in England.
In keeping with the themes of the movie, J.Lo opened up about the emotional struggle that comes with being cheated on. Her advice is something to which anyone who has been cheated on will understand;
“It’s about realizing it’s not about you,” she explained. “When someone cheats on you, it’s about them…about their shortcomings. It makes it feel like it’s about our shortcomings, like there was something wrong with us… but the truth is, that it’s really their ego, and what they need to fill within themselves that drives them to do things like that. Not because you weren’t enough.”
The singer and actress has had a string of high profile relationships, has been engaged four times and married – and divorced – three. Her last relationship, with her former back-up dancer Casper Smart, ended amid accusations he had cheated on her with two transsexuals, a claim he has denied.
J Lo claimed that since her divorce from husband number three Marc Anthony, she has refused to let herself become bitter. Seriously though: What guy would cheat on a flawless being like Jenny from the Block? If a ‘perfect ‘ Jennifer can be a victim of infidelity, how much more others.